最近在一家公司上班認識了A男同事,因為我本身個性較內向少話
A男的個性較活潑外向,感覺是個很喜歡交朋友的人
他也常常會主動用通訊軟體找我聊天
我剛進公司不熟悉工作時他也有幫我,很謝謝他
我為了答謝他有時候會請他吃巧克力或餅乾之類的小東西
有一次和他聊天時聊到因為我跟男生很少相處,所以講話都會有點緊張
他說就是因為這樣他才會主動常常找我聊天,想讓我跟男生相處的時候能自在一點
另外他也有約我出去逛逛,我有問他說還有約其他人嗎,他說沒有
本來我怕說只有兩個人我會很緊張,怕尷尬
但後來想想這可能是個可以訓練我自己如何和男生相處的一個機會吧
之後我就答應了,他說之後有確定時間再跟我說這樣
前幾天因為我感冒了,在公司一直咳嗽
他有注意到,問我有沒有去看醫生,我說還沒有
我想說隔天我剛好有休假再去看
他就說下班的時候他可以載我去看醫生,但那天我忘了帶健保卡只好作罷XD
後來我回家時發現他有line我,問我人有沒有還很不舒服
然後隔天我起來時也看到他問我有沒有去看醫生了
我說我怕藥苦,所以還在猶豫,他也是一直叫我要趕快去看病才會好
後來隔天下班回家時他問我有沒有乖乖吃藥,我說有
之後他說等我病好了他再買一盒巧克力給我這樣,當作獎勵
(這是把我當小孩嗎XD)
因為我也不太好意思只收他的東西,我也說那我也回送你巧克力這樣
但他堅持不用,說我趕快好起來就是對他最好的回禮了
但我也很堅持要回禮給他,結果他說女生送男生巧克力代表喜歡對方
我說朋友之間不是也會送巧克力嗎
但他說沒有,朋友都送餅乾居多,叫我不要亂送
我說沒關係,我們雙方知道沒有其他特別的意思就好
但他說不行,我如果送巧克力就當成我喜歡他這樣
後來我說那我改送其他東西,譬如餅乾什麼的
但他說他只喜歡吃巧克力,別的東西不要這樣
導致我送也不是,不送又覺得不好意思
想請問大家我該怎麼辦比較好?
而他對我只是單純一般朋友的關心而已嗎?
因為我真的很少和異性相處,所以不太瞭解
再麻煩大家提供看法了,謝謝~
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