大家好
事情是這樣的,昨晚跟閃光聊天時,提到了跟別人出去這檔事。
他告訴我,其實他不能接受我跟別人(一個人)約出去(吃飯or逛逛)的行為,要我以後有朋友單獨約的話,問能不能多帶一個人,不然就是不要去。
對於這點我蠻不認同的,除了覺得社交受到限制外,我之前都有幾個常單獨約出去,很要好的朋友,我也很確定他們不會跟我有什麼感情上的發展。
而他覺得感情是一回事,重點是這行為不只他,看在別人眼裡也是奇怪的。他在交往期間跟朋友約出去也絕對會與不只一個人,不曾與除了我之外的人單獨約過。
所以想在這裡問問大家,交往中單獨跟別人約出去這行為真的不妥當嗎?是我跟他價值觀的偏差還是我的確要改呢?
另外,我是雙,別人是異性同性對他來說是沒有差別的。
麻煩大家提供看法了,我不會堅持己見,只是現在也不知道該往哪裡走就是了…
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