如題,就是啊,我是男生,然後有時候運氣好會認識到一點點女生(數量也不是很多),有一些就覺得不錯,有想更進一步追求或交往,有時候甚至已經快摸到邊了,可是曖昧過程中發現女生是離過婚或是未婚有小孩的,這時候該怎麼辦呢?
問題一,大家會繼續追求甚至在一起嗎?還是趕快趁還涉入未深之前趕快縮手打推堂鼓?
問題二,另外一個重要的問題是,對方的小孩的性別或數量會影響你們決定要不要繼續追求或交往嗎?我有自己想過,如果對方沒有小孩那當然是嘗試更進一步,然後如果對方小孩是女生,我可以接受,但如果對方的小孩是男孩,就覺得好像不太能接受,感覺上就像是一頭幼獅長大後會威脅到自己
問題三,如果真的交往了大家有辦法把對方小孩當成自己的,完全無私的幫忙分擔出錢照顧撫養嗎?(當然交往一定會互相照顧和幫忙,只是假設萬一以後有了自己的小孩,和對方小孩在內心份量和照顧比例上可能會有差?)
大家會怎麼選擇呢?
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