交往好幾年了,只要到另一半家中拜訪家人
就常常被要求"跑腿",一天可以去買兩三樣東西
然後待著也不自在,另一半在家人面前又放不開
沒辦法兩個人好好相處聊天、放鬆
所以漸漸的就比較少去了...
直到另一半說媽媽有提起為什麼一直都沒見到
大概有3.4個月沒見了,對方媽媽提了好多次
提到連另一半都覺得我該去一趟
有告訴另一半為什麼不喜歡過去
而另一半卻只覺得我不替他著想...這麼做讓他難做人
但我覺得對方也沒替我想到我的感受及我為何這麼做
還說為什麼他就會陪我家人,而我卻不願意和他一樣這樣做
但我並沒有要求他必須這麼做,我家人也沒有要求這樣子
況且他在我家是被我家人疼愛、享受,送他一些日常用品、吃的、用的
而我去他家雖然也有吃,但是卻常叫我做些事,而那些事是他們家自己日常該做的
覺得溝通不出所以然
難道我們年輕一輩就應該迎合著老人家想要的樣子
而讓自己那麼不舒服、不自在
這究竟是我們年輕人做不好,還是老人家一直以來存在的陋習
歡迎指教,謝謝各位!
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