[心情] 跟男友的親友沒話聊
手機排版請見諒
跟男友交往兩年多,除了去他家跟他媽媽見面比較多次以外,其他朋友、親人聚會參與次
數兩隻手都數的完,都是吃飯,沒有出去玩。
到現場的時候我都會先跟大家打招呼,坐下吃飯,認真聽他們的對話,看看有什麼是我能
參與的話題,過程完全沒低頭滑手機。
可是我完全沒聊到半句話。
男友昨天突然說:這樣不講話別人覺得妳很怪
我:我又不知道要說什麼
男友:那是妳的問題啊,妳要自己想辦法
我:你覺得我都不講話,你是不是應該要幫我開話題,而不是自己聊的很開心
https://i.imgur.com/9EQbzvR.jpg
對話結束,氣氛降到最底。
這件事情他不是第一次提,我也很努力的想參與話題,昨天被他這麼一說,開始懷疑自己
是不是真的是怪人。
但是跟同學的朋友們第一次一起吃飯,我也是跟大家聊的很開心啊!!證明我不是怪人!
!!
是我比較在意男友的親友對我的看法所以比較謹言慎行嗎?
真的很難過欸。
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謝謝大家的意見,我還是決定要努力看看,昨天溝通過了雖然整個過程很不愉快,但彼此也知道對方想表達甚麼
沒有人是完美的
關關難過關關過,過不了至少也努力過
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