[討論] 個人置產關乎到以後另一半
小妹快滿27歲
目前工作一段時間有存款
加上父母資助的自備款
足夠買新北兩房一廳附車位的房子
貸款每月大約繳1.8萬
就算加上日常支出,自己的薪水也支付的起
從北上念書以來到現在工作
我都是租在便宜的老公寓
所以買房想買電梯大樓,附車位是為了以後好停車
加上全天候的保全讓我覺得安心很多
但現在問題來了
和現在這位男友沒意外的話會結婚吧
現在因為要住哪有些吵架
男友大哥二哥都是住電梯大樓
男友本人則是住在他們家第一間房子
是在台北市四樓的老公寓
男友的規劃很簡單,我以後搬進去住就是
但我就是不想住巷弄黑暗的老公寓
每次走在巷子裡都會想到以前不好的回憶
爬樓梯時我都會很焦慮,想快點把自己關在屋子裏
那個回憶讓我火速搬家到現在住的地方
期間被質疑、被反覆的問事件的經過
那段時間其實真的很想死
現在我真的很感謝基金會社工不斷的打電話給我
我懂一個月差快兩萬之間生活的差別
但我真的不想住在讓我不舒服的地方
而他想繼續住在台北市
我真的不知道該怎麼辦
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我要自己買啊,但他不願意搬來住
頭期我娘出,貸款我付啊
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他知道我以前發生什麼事
※ 編輯: bella844 (36.225.95.44), 09/12/2017 22:04:01
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前幾天他媽在他家群組裡貼了媳婦寫信給婆婆然後婆婆回信這類文章,一想到如果跟他長
久下去,勢必要面對他媽。
偏偏他媽又住很近在隔壁巷子而已@@
※ 編輯: bella844 (36.225.95.44), 09/12/2017 22:57:05
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總覺得要和他討論一下我以後要買哪,如果真的要長久還是要尊重一下對方
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公寓在他媽名下,所以他不能自由處分吧
我一直在想是否我太過霸道,硬要他搬離自己熟悉的地方
※ 編輯: bella844 (1.163.27.89), 09/13/2017 20:51:54
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舊文是前男友,不過現在這位好像也要成了前男友
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