本魯也不是沒交過女朋友
但這樣可以每天讓我七上八下的女友倒是第一次遇到
認識兩個月 交往一個月
兩人之間見面的相處沒什麼問題 也很甜蜜
但就是再電話上或文字上常常發生溝通不良的狀況
她總是覺得我思考太負面 常誤解她
但我自己覺得我會跟她溝通時思考負面也是因為太喜歡她太在乎她了
最後我會講那就掰的意思也不是要分手 只是在說那就不要再講了 一時的氣話 那部分晚
點再跟她解釋
但真的很常溝通到這種覺得心很累的狀況 快受不了的感覺 大概三天一次這種事情
想請問大家有沒有什麼好的建議 謝謝
以下對話內容
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我也不想兩個人太表達自己 但一打字就很注意自己這塊
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但她每三天這樣一次 而且她一定知道我真的很愛她
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我承認我的壞習慣 吵架還會去戳別人痛處
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我覺得我反而還比較擔心我沒有她 她每次都會笑說我也太愛她了吧 這樣子 卻還這樣問
我是覺得自己被踩在地上的感覺
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這個我承認 要改進><
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每三天講一次這種話 我也是覺得總有一天會哄累吧 這個問題想一次改善
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兩個人真的情緒上來 明天再跟她談談
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這真的沒有 我也交過不少女友 我也知道感情需要慢慢相處
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分點分項試過很多次 但她還是可以無限迴圈
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我也不太懂 她說是開玩笑
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還有 90 則推文
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謝謝各位,已經跟她講好了,我為我講話難聽道歉了,她也說以後會站在我的感受上思考
她要說的話,而不是用這種負面問法
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