[討論] 女友遇到問題總是習慣逃避消失
跟女友在一起一年,我發現她有一個很嚴重的缺點,就是只要遇到問題或者麻煩的事,她就會選擇逃避,不管任何事情她都這樣,那種感覺就很像你挖一個洞把自己的頭埋進去,假裝啥都看不到聽不到,但外面的事情並不會因為你而停止發生。
那我為什麼會說這個缺點很嚴重?因為我發現這已經會影響到她的生活了。
我講個例子,去年大概11月的時候吧,她跟我說她的電話費累積了幾千塊沒去繳,所以斷話了,我從那時就一直提醒她要趕快去繳掉,分期繳也要還清,到現在快一年了,一毛都沒去繳,早就被停話了,
這樣就算了,她今年忘記是幾月的時候,又被追討一筆電話費,據說是她兩年前積欠的另一個電話費(兩年前我還沒認識她),電信業者就說只要可以一次繳7800,後續他們就不追究自行吸收,後來就只能去繳掉....
單單電話費這件事,就讓我看到了她這個缺點的嚴重性.....
她總是覺得遇到問題當下無法解決,就先逃避就好,
逃避很簡單,大家都會,但是後續呢?
套一句柯P講過的名言「你不解決問題,問題總有一天會解決你」。
但我女友很顯然不吃這一套....
她的觀念就覺得無法解決很煩、乾脆就先無視它,但後續她也完全不會有任何想要繼續解決問題的動作,就當作沒這件事一樣了==
想請問鄉民,女友這樣的性格我該如何引導她...?
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