已經相處了一年多了
漸漸發現我男友不喜歡“被忤逆”
雖然平常都是他順著我,
例如吵架的時候,我提出的改善建議,他都會接納、身體不適的時候也是會盡全力幫我做
事、我不會的東西他會耐心的教我,從不會不耐煩的發怒…
但是唯有一點他不喜歡被觸犯。
就是“在對我好的要求下,不可以忤逆他”
例如我因為課業常晚睡,他會要求我馬上去睡覺,如果我沒有馬上去睡覺,他就會非常非
常的不爽
還有今天,因為雨一下大一下小,所以他叫我在原地等不要淋雨,他去牽車來載我,結果
後來他發現我錢包沒有零錢可以投停車場的票(他沒拿走他的錢包,在我手上)所以他就開
玩笑說直接拿我錢包的一千去換20
(他沒說明那是玩笑,我以為是真的,我是那種很容易相信別人的人)
我就不想拿大鈔換二十,所以我在電話裡面跟他說:不要,我去找你,給你錢包。
他就說:不用,待在原地,我等一下開過去。
可是我真的怕他直接把我一千拿去換二十Orz
所以我就拿外套擋雨,然後走過去(毛毛雨,而且停車場到店裡不遠)
當我走過去,到達停車場的時候,他超級超級不高興。
這是所謂的大男人嗎?不喜歡被忤逆。
因為我小時候父母沒有這麼嚴厲要求我一定要聽從,學校要求的事情我也是參考而已,要
不要做是我決定,所以我不是一個世俗判定的“乖小孩”。我想早點睡就會趕快去睡、我
不想淋雨我就會自己待在原地、我認同的事情就會去做…
但是男友很不喜歡我這樣,他說他不喜歡被忤逆的感覺……。
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就,他說那是對我好的要求不可以忤逆
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事實,我就真的以為他會拿去換
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對啊Orz
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原來還有這招w
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沒錯,真的
※ 編輯: Modipret (1.175.67.37), 06/18/2017 12:40:46
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