[討論] 約會男生付錢是父權還是女權的表示
男女吵不完的問題其中一個,一定有約會誰付錢這個。看到很多文章討論這個現
象,我越來越搞不清楚這個問題。
以前看到很多人推崇的一個答案,「如果你跟男生約會,但你不主動提出你可以
付錢,那代表你沒有被教好;如果你跟男生約會,但男生不付錢,那代表他沒被教好。」
(原文網址:https://read01.com/mAEoQO.html)
後來又看到感情上比較弱的一方的說法,大概就是如果一個人喜歡有錢人而跟有
錢人交往,那喜歡錢的人在這段感情上一定比較弱勢。
也有人說,AA制代表女性可以獨立自主,不需依靠男生;也聽過男生因為是弱勢
所以才用錢討好女生。
到底所謂AA制和男生買單那一個才是父權?哪一個平等?男生付錢的模式裡面誰
強勢?誰弱勢?
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