簡單的雙方狀況描述
男:22y/在學中/拿父母生活費/家中經濟小康
女:25y/出社會3年/薪水30k左右/家中經濟普通
其實不得不承認女生在出社會之後價值觀或多或少會有變動
尤其是對錢這塊好像又更現實一點
我沒有覺得男友對我不好
但因為聽到及看到周遭朋友同事與另一半相處的狀況
讓我產生了比較的心態
例如同事說這次去日本的膳食費都是男友包辦
朋友A說去沖繩的機票是男友付的
朋友B說我昨天帶我女友去吃大餐
朋友C說男友出差帶了一隻專櫃唇膏給我
朋友D買了一條T牌項鍊給女友
這些事情越聽越多之後讓我心裡產生了一種落寞感
這些事情越聽越多之後讓我心裡產生了一種落寞感
跟男友交往半年來他只請我吃過一次單點的燒肉店(那是他人生第一次打工的薪水 我很感動)
聖誕節送過一隻手錶
出去吃飯都是各付各的包括情人節
男友的心態是因為錢是爸媽的不是他的
所以花爸媽的錢請我吃飯或是買禮物給我會讓他有愧疚感
我沒有覺得這種心態不好
但因為周遭環境如此
會讓我有種不被寵的感覺
在大學期間跟另一半同居他也會體貼的多付一點房租
默默地心裡就會有一個聲音說
那是你爸媽給你的生活費 要怎麼花 他們也不會管
不要指責我是公主什麼的
因為交往期間各付各的我都沒有說什麼
只是想要上來請益版友
要怎麼樣調適自己不要有比較的心態(不然我心裡真的好不舒坦)
而且這種事又很難跟男友啟齒
又或者有什麼比較好的建議可以讓我跟男友溝通
先謝謝大家了
明天要上班
明天要上班
我竟然因為煩這種事睡不著
而且跟朋友討論也沒結論才上來發問
朋友最後只丟一句是她太現實
哈哈哈哈哈哈哈
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