[求助] 喜歡上"缺乏家庭溫暖"的女生消失
事情是這樣的
我跟一位女同事最近對彼此都有一點好感(以下稱A女)
雖然還沒兩人單獨出去過,但是在公司互動良好
A女來公司一年又一個月
已經換過三個男朋友了 (上禮拜跟第三任分手)
三段愛情幾乎都只有間隔1~2個月
幾乎一整年都在談戀愛的女人
雖然她換男友換很勤,但是每一段她都很認真對待
但是公司大部分的人都覺得A女很亂(水性楊花)
最近有機會跟她聊天,得知她父母離異10年了(13歲時離婚的)
到現在還是很討厭爸爸的再婚對象
讓我稍微對她改觀了
覺得她或許只是從小缺乏家庭溫暖、缺少安全感
只能藉由不斷愛人與被愛來彌補心中的空洞
我只有高中時代交過一次女朋友,目前還是小處男
而對方是身經百戰的老手,性經驗至少也有3人以上
如果我不追她,只是單純跟她保持良好關係,我覺得她很快又會交到新的男朋友
但是我現在還不夠了解她,還沒有真的很喜歡她
我該先下手為強嗎?(例如先約出去幾次看看)
或是在觀察一陣子看看呢?
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FQ~~~~!
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是沒錯,所以我在想該保持距離還是試著了解看看
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會
但是她應該不會打槍我啦
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你覺得我只想幹她嗎?
是的話我就直接追了啊,不用來這裡po廢文Rrrr
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我也不知道....
所以我在考慮是否要更進一步認識一下
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我覺得我有一點喜歡她,但是我魯了快10年...
面對經驗豐富的她,總有點自卑感/沒自信,很怕被比較
加上我也沒有很明白自己真實的想法
我也很想知道現在對她的感情到底是什麼愛情 ?同情 ?騎士精神? 還是什麼....
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