[討論] 出去後+觀察就慢慢冷掉消失
大家晚安~
想跟大家討論一個問題
有沒有人在遇到新的對象之後
一開始覺得還不錯
但是會因為約出去之後的相處
對方的缺點
或是對方踩到自己的一點地雷之後就逐漸扣分而變冷淡呢?
比如說:
1. 講話太直
有些聽了會刺耳
自己屬於委婉的人
因為會顧慮別人的想法
但是對方似乎屬於陳述事實派
我知道他說的是事實
但是說得這麼直接不給別人台階下
我會覺得對方有點過了
2. 覺得外表舒服簡單就好? (衣服都穿同一件, 有時候鬍子不刮)
我出去都會精心打扮
妝 衣服 配件
會想讓對方覺得用心
但是對方這樣會讓我覺得他好像不重視跟我出去這件事
就算一開始有想發展的想法而且也覺得對對方有好感
但是上面這些真的會越來越放大
朋友都是衝了就幸福地在一起
但是自己遇過的情況好像都是對方還想繼續
但是自己經過多方評估後卻冷掉了
是我比較理性可以客觀地分析嗎?
總覺得無法衝動地就和對方在一起
好像如果評估或感覺沒達到一個門檻就算了
也不要耽誤彼此
※補充一下
對方當然有優點
個性不錯
有時候滿貼心的
出去的地方會配合我選離我比較近的(離他有段距離)
我也都看在眼裡
並非只光看缺點就認為對方不值得認識
大家會這樣嗎?
歡迎一起討論~
真的很想瞭解
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