[求助] 生活重心
小弟思緒不好,排版有亂請見諒!
我到新北中和工作,
女友是板橋人,
我的工作有點特殊,
需要輪班,日夜顛倒…
常常沒辦法陪伴女友,所以只要放假我都會陪女友,連回家也是兩個月回一次,
女友生活沒什麼重心,而她的重心就是我…
我們每天必定視訊聊天,
可是我上班完的休息時間只有八小時,
八小時完又要上班,
每次下班完就是打給她,邊騎車邊講電話,
回到家後開視訊聊天,
聊天過程中,我邊聊天邊洗澡、餵貓、清貓砂、有時吃飯…等
要上班前的一個小時,就會被她叫起床陪她,我則是換衣服準備上班、騎車、買飯、吃飯
…
每天睡眠時間大概有六個小時多,
如果運氣好有十二個小時休息,
她則會想要我去板橋找她吃早餐或是宵夜,
像是特定節日就一定要我去找她吃飯聊天,
也不是說她不好,
她偶爾還會送飯來我上班的地方給我…
買衣服給我穿…
可是她月收入不高,每個月都要找我請錢過生活,
有跟她說過不能這樣亂買東西,但她還是如此,
需要跟想要分不清楚,
而且常常po文打卡,有點像炫耀恩愛的感覺,
有跟她說過了,她說只是想紀錄生活,
但是她打卡打的無意義,像只為了打卡而打卡,
我們也像是為了愛而愛…
她很黏我,常常需要我陪伴,
可是我的工作就是沒辦法這麼常陪她,
每天都日夜顛倒,而且有時早班,有時晚班,
是我不夠好嗎?
還是…?
已經有很多同事、朋友不看好我們…
無助了,求解…
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