[討論] 愛一個人是退讓嗎還做自己
如題
目前處於一個不太懂愛情的狀態,不知道愛情到底該是彼此退讓到互相可以接受的樣子?
還是兩個人堅持做自己的,若一方無法接受則分開。
以前我男友知道我不開心他跟女生很常聊賴,他會退讓或是減少次數,這樣我也可以接受
。
而近期他又跟一個女同事開始聊天了,但他們的頻率是每天下班跟休假聊,內容雖然沒有
曖昧,但舉凡任何事情都可以聊,她今天工作上遇到的事還是她家的玩偶還是她覺得自己
男友不上進...
我男友的心態覺得每天聊天沒什麼,這是他想做的事情,他堅持他不想退讓,過去會因為
我不開心而減少次數是因為那時候他願意妥協(或許我猜是那時候比較在意我想法吧?)
現在他則是覺得如果你不能接受,那他願意放手讓我走儘管他還愛我(他在?裝可憐嗎?
)
經過幾天思考覺得自己需要脫離這關係,但還是一直會去思考難道我願意退一步 只希望
你少聊一點都沒辦法了
可能外面的新鮮感比較有趣吧...
又或是我已經不在那麼重要了...
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