[求助] 女友很不喜歡動腦
各位大大大家好,小弟第一次發文
小弟與女友交往將近三年,我的女友很棒,很漂亮,人也很開朗
平常時候隨意的聊天都沒什麼問題,不過每次只要聊天聊到關於
我們未來的規劃(不是結婚,只是單純對於彼此的成長)、
未來的走向、或者稍微認真的話題,譬如:興趣、夢想、價值觀等等
小弟女友都會脾氣變得很暴躁,不想聊,在聊下去都會生氣
其實一開始小弟我也想說就算了,等他心情好在聊
結果每次都跟我說"休息時間不要讓他動腦,心情會很差"、
"休息時間只想做一些不用腦的事"、"休息時間不要聊正事"
交往到現我也是真的很難受,我的想法是,這些重要的事不聊,難道瞎子摸象,
走一步算一步嗎?我們兩家境都只是普普通通,並沒有山可以靠
請問各位大大,我到底該怎麼做?是我的問題嗎?
是的話我該怎麼做才可以把這個問題解決?
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唉......的確是幾乎不可能
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太嚴肅嗎...可是我都是說說笑笑這樣,討論的時候也會穿插一些屁話
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我沒有嫌,不愛動腦不等於沒腦喔
※ 編輯: john942079 (180.217.218.139), 02/15/2017 22:45:44
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恩......好,我再試試
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說得蠻對的...那如果他真的是這樣,我該怎麼幫助他?
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看不太出來平常有在利用時間(?)
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