[討論] 真的有情侶就是天生不合嗎?
我跟男友都很愛彼此,我可以感受到他很愛我,而我當然也很愛他,我們交往半年多,但
常常會談到未來,我們都會考慮未來,是有想要攜手一直走下去的。
但問題來了,我們常吵架,都是很小的事情,但我們面對衝突的方式很不同,常常會吵完
變成元氣大傷,也會對彼此開始懷疑,到底適不適合在一起。我生氣難過的時候,會哭會
希望趕快講開,很拍他丟下我我一個人哭;但他遇到衝突時,很需要自己獨處,會直接離
開家,不理我也不告訴我去哪裡,我會為了要他說清楚再走擋著他,但他會因此說出傷人
的話,例如「我真後悔跟你同居」之類的,事後他都會道歉,我也知道他不是真的那個意
思。
因為這樣的不同,他常會說一些我們彼此並不合適,像兩片拼圖,好像合但其實不合。我
聽了很難過,我不認為我們因此而不合適,我認為我們只是要更有耐心的磨合。
到底是我太樂觀?還是男友太悲觀?
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