[求助] 生育問題該在婚前決議好還是婚後隨緣?
我和男友交往穩定,個性和價值觀都很一致
他32歲我30歲,交往一年半以來也沒吵過什麼大架
最近開始討論要不要結婚的問題....然後重點就來了
現階段他抱著不生的打算,在這個時間點問他未來會想生嗎
聽起來也已不生的機會較大...主要原因不外乎是擔心教養問題>金錢運用更自主
我的話會覺得有一個小朋友陪我會是完美家庭的表現,現階段問我也不想生
但未來隨緣這樣(搖擺派)
討論到後來,發現我們真的無法放下彼此但又希望做對對方最好的決定....
我們各自尋求周邊朋友的選擇,聽起來支持婚前決議OR時候到了就想生的人都有
明確的是他希望我多問人多聽聽別人的想法和意見
我們對婚姻都是抱著想認真經營的態度
知道是個大哉問,還是好奇大家遇到時會怎麼選擇呢?
或是強制設好停損點之類的,謝謝你們~
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