[求助] 對女友分享的事情沒興趣
女友是雙魚女,我們現在台美遠距。
她現在在銀行工作,常常會跟我分享一些她上班遇到的事情,但大多時候我都對她講的事
情沒興趣。我對銀行的工作沒太多的了解,也沒興趣,所以常常跟她聊天都沒共鳴。
她是那種喜歡什麼小事都拿來跟我分享的人,基本上我們有聊天的話8成以上都是我聽她
講,但我有時候覺得是不是因為她講的小事都太小都沒過濾過,所以才讓我覺得激不起想
聽的感覺。
我們剛剛小吵了一架,內容就是她覺得她跟我分享某天上班遇到的事情但是我沒給她合乎
她期待的反應跟回答。 我承認我真的沒回她什麼,我就回了謝謝跟我分享這件事而已,
她就不開心了。
我覺得她跟我分享的事情都跟我太沒相關,然後又不是我有興趣的領域,所以真的很難聊
她開的工作相關的話題。
請問有人有類似經驗能分享解決方式嗎?
有沒有人也覺得自己另一半講的事情跟自己太沒相關又很沒興趣,但是後來找到解決方法
的?
我有在想是不是我該假裝我有興趣,然後隨便從她分享的事情編兩個問題來問?大家覺得
呢?
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