[求助] 女友全家都有宗教信仰 心態該如何?
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小弟跟女友交往四年多
我家是傳統燒香祭祖的台灣信仰 比起宗教我更認為像習俗(中元普渡 清明掃墓 這類)
女友全家都是佛教信仰 是留法修行的某個派系 吃蛋奶素 每週固定會跟導師一起上課受教 週末會去當志工發傳單
最近我們都走出學校踏入社會 開始面對未來的問題
女友一直想拉我一起去他們的講堂上課 參加他們的活動 我全都拒絕 但我不會排斥他去 , 畢竟信仰自由 況且也不是什麼邪教
但我每次拒絕他 他都會跟為鬧脾氣 這讓我越來越困擾
去他們家蠻多次也看過他父親 他父親聊天聊到最後都會連到他們的宗教 也跟我說希望我去 不會逼我 但修行是越快越好這類的
她們全家都是非常好 非常善良的人
但我實在不能接受宗教那種 你不相信 下輩子就不用當人甚至下地獄這種世界觀 而且又吃素 認為吃葷很噁心等等
我只要去他們家 他父親就會一起想拉我進去一起上課參加活動
請問我心態上該如何調整? 換做各位鄉民會怎麼做?
第一 我不可能一起跟著信 我宗教觀念依舊是傳統道教
第二 我不可能吃素 出去玩太麻煩 我不喜歡讓別人操心要吃什麼
這問題很多鄉民應該都遇過 沒想到現在到我頭上 我已經不知道該怎麼做了 也不願意輕易放下這段感情
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