大家好,小弟目前21歲,目前任職於某知名線上英語公司
所以身邊都有很多比自己大的女生,但最近喜歡上了一個大我4歲的女生
她是獅子座,個性比較像男生一點(但很可愛)
生活非常的單純,下班或休假就是去跑步或陪家人
我們在公司認識了一年多,以往的相處模式都是姐弟相處,看到對方都會互嗆.嘴炮對方
休假也會跟幾個同事一起出去,感情都很好
但最近不小心喜歡上了她,對她的相處模式也有點改變,當然她也感受到了
我也藉由一個跟她不錯的朋友(前同事)得知到,她希望我不要這樣子對她
因為她一直都是把我當家人,當弟弟在看待,不想要我破壞原有的相處模式
前同事跟我說,我沒有機會,必須要恢復原有的相處模式
當然我也沒問題,我跟女方的感情及個性,恢復後,也不會尷尬什麼的
但小弟這邊想請教大家,在這樣的狀況底下,是真的未來完全都不會有機會嗎?
如果有的話,應該要怎麼樣的表現可以吸引對方呢
因為她的生活很單純,個性很活潑,也愛運動,跟我本人是一樣的,很喜歡簡簡單單的女孩
再麻煩大家給我點建議及看法,謝謝
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這個非常確定是沒有,她也單身很久了,也有點想交男朋友,我覺得最大的問題是卡在原有的相處模式跟年齡的差距吧
※ 編輯: s0901122 (42.66.85.34), 09/17/2016 05:29:16
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那是我們原本的相處模式,自從喜歡她之後,我就沒有這樣對她了,但她還是會嗆我啦
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※ 編輯: s0901122 (42.66.85.34), 09/17/2016 06:13:51
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