[求助] 邀請交往五年女友來家中烤肉被拒絕…消失
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小弟與女友交往五年多
我台中人在台北工作
女友台北人在新竹工作,每個禮拜回台中
大概每個禮拜會見面或是約會一次
在9月初便與女友提及中秋連假的禮拜五我會回台中老家跟同學烤肉以及一位多年好友在9
月底結婚,希望她能選擇一個活動跟我一起參加
女友表示要考慮一下
就在今天我問女友是否參加,她說她以為“我早就知道她不會去了…”
因為這件事情我們起了爭執,我們各自執著的點如下:
1.從9月初開始我就在一直默默期待希望 她會參加,雖然有做好她不參加的心理準
備…但是沒有想要參加任何活動的意願卻不提早也不主動告知,我還是傻傻的問了,然後
被拒絕,得到的答案是她以為“我早就知道她不會去了…”,真的令人心寒…
2.女友覺得為什麼一定要去台中陪我烤肉?每個禮拜在台北幾乎都有見面阿?
3.女友覺得台北台中來回很遠
4.我覺得今天換成她約我,我很願意參加
5.女友覺得難得四天連假想要好好在家裡
6.週休2日,想待在家裡不願來台中我ok,連假3天還是覺得太短我也ok,這次放了四天卻
變成想要待在家裡休息
講完電話之後眼淚不知道為什麼一直落下…心中也很難受…
我真的覺得這件事情他完全沒站在我的立場著想,其實我只是想要她來台中參加活動,真
的不想來不會勉強她,但是她的處置跟今天的爭執真的讓我很難過…
想請問大家我哪裡做錯了……
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