[求助] 入贅?!
第一次在男女版PO文,大家好!
我有一個100%排灣族的女友,她上有一個姊姊、下有一個弟弟,
是一個傳統的排灣貴族社會,但是她家是平民,而不是酋長頭頭。
我跟女友已經交往一年多,談著穩定的遠距離戀愛,暑假才剛從美國回台灣陪她,
雖然偶爾會吵架,但是都很短暫,是會讓感情不減反增的那種,
我們都很穩定,也有極大可能會未來會步上紅毯。
根據她的說法,排灣族家中的老大,不論男女,另外一半都需要入贅到家裡,
所以照理來說,她姊的男朋友必須要入贅到她家嫁給她姊,
但是她姊男友不想被招入贅,所以最近也常常因為這件事情兩個人在吵架,
她姊的個性比較硬,有可能會因此掀起家庭革命而和她爸媽鬧翻,
讓她爸媽直接不想認她這個大女兒。
所以現在矛頭指向我,變成如果我要跟我女友結婚,我必須入贅她家,
我家人這邊也是完全的反對,說如果必須這樣做的話,直接分手必較快。
我對我女友反駁的論點是,
(1) 如果她姊都不遵守族裡的傳統了,為什麼要不公平的換妳遵守?
(2) 她下面還有一位弟弟,如果上面兩位姊姊都無法,為何不可以由弟弟來頂替
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