[討論] 太以對方為生活重心了
我這個人都以另一半為中心
大學時每天打工上課都只為了彼此
當時的我覺得很有目標
目標就是對方
很純很純的感情
(分手原因就不多闡述了
現在開始上班
換了男友
換了一個需要自己時間的男友
當妳認清妳的目標是他
而他的目標卻不是妳的時候
突然好無助的問自己:我該怎麼辦?
每天下班期待著晚一點的視訊
每週放假期待著對方也放假的相聚
搬到人生地不熟的地方工作只為靠近一點點
這些是我每天上班的動力
但對方其實並不全然也這麼想
他表示
:以對方為重心會錯過很多自己的事情
:而且 應該容易膩還會會給另一半壓力
說著叫我獨立
我也想獨立
而卻好難好孤單
目前預計找出自己的興趣改變生活重心
不要假日一直黏著彼此
想知道大家目前的生活重心是什麼呢
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