我跟我前女友交往了七年半
我是個高雄人
為了他來他的家鄉(桃園)工作(公務員)
他是生技產業
我還在當學生的時候就考上了
他爸媽覺得我很穩定應該蠻喜歡我的
所以我當兵時就常去他家跟他家人相處
甚至跟我前女友一起睡同房間
他家人還跟我說生技業在南部不好找工作
要我為他著想
現在我們分手了
分手的問題大概分3點
1.他覺得他在跟我分享事情的時候我會簡單回答(哦哦是哦)
然後我會開我自己的話題
久而久之他覺得不想跟我分享了
2.他是個很獨立的女生
算是女強人吧
他覺得我有時候可有可無 不依賴我
也感受不到我的呵護
3.最近我佈置房間想說他來能舒服一點
我約他去採買 一起擺設
他說他感受不到喜悅
突然有一天他說他變了 他也醞釀好久 他看了本婚姻的書
他覺得往後要跟我在一起好幾十年好恐慌
後來我就被他提分手了 分手得當下我們抱著痛哭
我們還一起存了些結婚基金
他說我們暫時分開 之後等我們都更好了或許還有機會
他的家人也跟我說如果你把我女兒當未來老婆就不要放棄
如果喜歡他就要改進自己 過一段日子在試試看
請問各位大大 我還要再試試看嗎?
還是不愛就不愛了
因為其實我把她當我的重心
為了他努力讀書 為了有麵包能照顧他
我就向為他而活
所以分手之後 我心像空了一樣
請各位大大給我些意見
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