[求助] 急! 表弟感情出問題
各位版友大家好,
我的表弟目前高二,
最近因為感情的事情有點情緒失控,
我的阿姨非常緊張,我也不知道怎樣幫助他,
在此懇請各位版友提供意見,事情如下:
表弟很喜歡同班的一位女生,
但其實不知道女生的心意,
據阿姨說,那位女生喜歡在表弟面前跟班上其他男生打鬧,
於是我的表弟被搞得情緒失控,在班上摔課桌椅,
甚至揚言說要揍那個男生。
班導已經多次關心且通知阿姨姨丈,也跟表弟說該女不好請他放棄看開點,
但表弟陷得很深不願敞開心胸與家人溝通....
這樣下去不單單只會影響班級氣氛或學業上的表現,
甚至擔心可能出現不該出現的暴力行為。
阿姨很擔心請我幫忙,看看表弟是不是比較願意跟年輕人談談,
但是我也不知道要怎樣跟他講,
所以想請問各位大大我該怎麼跟表弟談?
以下我有幾種想法:
1. 建議表弟直接去問那個女生的想法(但表弟可能不願意?)
2. 直接叫他放棄? (好像陷得很深機率不高)
3. 順其自然別多管閒事讓他自己走出來
4. 月工火暴那個男生 (八卦版鄉民適用選項,BG版不適用)
5. 其他?
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