[心情] 我姊妹是不是暈船了?
我從高中到現在的一個好姊妹,
在2/14時和一個公務員開始交往,
她說是對方突然告白的,據說只認識2個星期......
然後,昨天我的朋友和她男朋友去看旅遊展時,
就糊里糊塗被拉去看婚紗,沒想到,
男生就訂了婚紗照...
換句話說,兩個人認識彼此到現在才不到3個月的時間,
就走到訂婚紗這一步。
那個男生我有看過,人很隨和,看起來像草食男,感覺對我朋友很好...
沒想到進展這麼快速~~
請問各位先進,我是不是該勸勸我朋友先緩一緩~~?
畢竟,女生的青春只有一次,感覺賭注好大 @_@
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非常感謝版友們分享意見,
誠如版友們說的,「甘妳屁事」...XD
不過,婚姻不只是涉及兩個人的戀愛觀與相處,
還包括金錢觀(夫妻財產共有或獨立?誰管帳?)、家庭觀(如何對待另一半的原生家庭)
等等,這些事情並非熱戀期的男女會認真思考的,或是即使想認真思考也會被當前的幸
福所蒙蔽。
兩個人在上述這些面向上的磨合絕對是需要時間,
甚至實際上存在某些靠時間也無法解決的歧異.....
與其說我是擔心男生的人品,倒不如說我是擔心這兩個人在熱戀與幸福的酩酊下,
是否漏看了些甚麼......
就我個人的直覺,他們都是認真追求幸福的人,
所以也希望他們能克服種種障礙,
我版上的PO文只是想換個方式,讓我的好朋友仔細思考,
我也把PO文內容給她看過了~~
相信她會懂的 :)
晚一點會刪除本文~
再次謝謝大家 ^^
※ 編輯: karrenn (111.241.31.216), 03/29/2016 00:27:05
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