[討論] 打掃是女朋友(或未來會結婚的)該做的嗎
最近兩個人正在走上分手一途
其中跟男友有討論到一些彼此之間的問題
其他的問題先不說
男友說出了"他覺得我都不會幫他打掃家裏" 這是他覺得無法跟我走下去的一點
他說,不知道這樣子該如何結婚
先簡單的說明一下狀況,我男友是那種會把家裏弄到像爆炸一樣的人,是那種打掃超乾淨
莫約兩三天就立刻家裡跟爆炸一樣的人
我就是屬於那種會只會把衣服擺在椅子上,其他東西都不亂丟 也不是骯髒的人
一個星期莫約住男友家兩到三次 他弄亂廚房會幫他洗碗;收拾廚房
可是因為房間跟家裡真的太爆炸了,他又有規定衣服擺放的位置 (例如
穿過的衣服不能掛回衣櫥) 所以通常家裏大亂的時候 我沒辦法收拾
一方面也是覺得很煩燥阿砸 上一次他把家裏弄爆炸的時候 我就跟他說了
可不可以請他以後東西就擺好 如果家裡小亂 我可以幫忙收拾 爆炸我真的無法
他覺得他工作忙 壓力很大 所以會亂脫衣服 東西亂擺 他覺得我很閒
(我上班也會加班 頂多只是周休二日) 她說我應該要幫他整理家務 把家裡打掃乾淨
可是我想知道 大家都覺得這樣是女友的義務嗎 因為他說他看不慣這點
讓他覺得我們無法長久走下去 後來想想 可能兩人觀念真的完全不同吧
我沒有覺得他完全是錯的 但我也不覺得這是我的義務阿....
我朋友是跟我說 它們覺得女朋友或老婆又不是傭人 ...大家想法是什麼呢
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