[求助] 是我無理取鬧還是他不可理喻?
前情提要,我要求我男友別在我面前抽煙以及不要讓我聞到煙味。
但是一個禮拜前他自主戒菸了。
事發經過:
昨晚我男友的朋友攜家帶眷的來找我男友玩。
後來逛街到一半時,我男友陪他朋友,我陪他朋友的老婆。
後來分開逛之後,我男友跑來找我自首說:「我剛剛有抽半根煙。」
我不信:「我聞。」
一靠近之後真的聞到煙味:「幹,離我遠一點。」幹是語助詞。
然後我男友開始緊張一直想靠近,但是我說:「你身上有煙味,離我遠一點。」
後來跟我男友朋友道別後,走在一起準備牽車回家。
而我的情緒從生氣到難過,難過他愛自己大於愛我,所以抽煙。
我男友就開始找話題:「妳想買衣服嗎?」
我:「不想,過年花很多了。」口氣淡淡的
我男友:「想吃什麼嗎?」
我:「沒有,我晚餐吃很飽。」
情緒依舊低落
然後我男友:「你現在是在生氣嗎?」
我:「一開始是生氣,現在是難過。」
我男友:「我都跟你自首了耶,而且是朋友請我的,我不會自己買煙,況且我只抽半根阿
。」
我:「我知道你沒有在我面前抽,所以我什麼也沒說。」
我男友:「對啊,我又沒有在你面前抽。」
我看他一眼,繼續不講話,也不知道能講什麼。
我男友:「路上抽煙的人都比我臭了。」
我:「那又怎樣,我就是討厭煙味阿。」
後來我們回到家之後,我打字傳給我男友(在同一空間)不要找藉口,不要被情緒控制,
並夾帶髒話。之後睡覺。
而我男友看完沒有任何反應,後來他睡著,我等2/14吵醒他,而他說:「妳不覺得妳在
無理取鬧嗎?每次都要在大街上跟我吵,對我也太嚴格了,還擺態?。」
我:「我那裡無理取鬧?你問我的一般問題我都有好好回答你,而且我沒有罵你,兇你。
我到底哪裡做錯?」
我男友:「你這樣就是無理取鬧,就是在擺態阿。」
後來我東西收一收準備離開,但是門打不開,突然壞了,所以我現在還在男友這。
我想問的是,我的作法哪裡做不好……因為我習慣這樣了,能怎麼變更好?
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