[心情] 傷人
最近對一個人頗有好感
但我們只是點頭之交
我想進一步認識他 所以主動跟他聯繫
但也因為沒有很熟所以互動也很平淡
最近在他生日前的某一天
他突然變得很熱情
說他很無聊 想找我聊天
剛好我正在煩惱要不要送他生日禮物
我有準備禮物卻在掙扎著該不該送
所以我就趁這個機會直接問他
『如果我送你禮物 你會感到壓力嗎?』
結果他回我說「拿來看看啊 要的話再說」
後來沒過了多久
他就丟了一句 「道歉 剛剛非本人 臉書被盜」
老實說 這時候就覺得不太舒服了
表示平常我跟他說的話 有第三者看得到嗎?
他們到底是抱著怎樣的心態在開玩笑?
又想到都已經跟他說有準備禮物了
那到底該不該送呢?
所以隔了幾天我還是硬著頭皮送他東西
他也收了 沒說什麼 只用了臉書通訊寫了「謝謝」
或許是想知道那天跟我對話的人到底是不是他
最近就試探性的傳些訊息給他
結果他回我說
「其實我覺得你很奇怪 你喜歡我嗎?」
「可是我覺得很煩」
當下我超傻眼 只好回他
『對不起...我不會再打擾你』
迅速的刪掉臉書和之前的通訊
沒過多久後 他就丟了一句
「其實剛剛有些話不是我傳的」
...........是有沒有這麼沒擔當
自己不敢拒絕別人 就叫第三人傳訊息嗎?
感覺真的很差
想拒絕 何不在一開始就明說呢...?
又幹嘛要把我當作開玩笑的對象
這到底是什麼心態...
總覺得很傷人
也讓我看明白了 對他好 真的是自己愚蠢...
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※ 編輯: neostan (36.239.222.22), 02/02/2016 09:16:57
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