[討論] 大家心碎幾次後覺得自己「成長」了?
一開始大家對感情都抱著憧憬與期許
都會為著感情把自己豁出去
但隨著一次又一次真心換絕情
你對感情漸漸的不會抱持著「對方一定要怎麼樣」的心情
即使失望,但你心裡默默的覺得也還好啦
反正這很正常,這世界本來最後就是誰背叛誰,誰對不起誰
根本沒有絕對不變心的關係
感覺死心也是一種成長吧
我是在兩任,總共8年的感情生活中體會到
原來自己已經跟第一次失戀的自己不太一樣了
我想我以後不管進入哪種關係
都會建立起某種像安全屋的東西
雖然失戀一樣會痛
但可以有系統化的處理傷口,看待情傷這樣
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