[求助] 我女友希望我跟她親戚們一起烤肉
我見過兩三次女友的媽媽
她弟弟也大概知道我
她爸比較嚴格所以還不知道女兒有男友
下個星期她外婆家那邊要烤肉
舅舅阿姨都會帶小孩去
女友在她家族群裡面提到我
她大阿姨就說想看看她男友
女友就叫我去跟她們家一起烤
(她爸那天不在)
我個人真的很不會跟家長相處,我希望的方式是循序漸近的認識她的家人
這樣直接參加家族烤肉對我來說實在有點困難
雖然她說只有小孩們在頂樓烤肉
大人大部分都會在家裡打麻將
但我覺得還是有點太快就參加這種一堆親戚的聚會
說不會一起烤但一定每個都會見到面要說什麼做什麼我真的完全沒經驗
現在學歷也不高,我希望是我有點成就之後再慢慢認識
現在我表明這樣對我來說無法應付
她就覺得難過,因為她是個很喜歡認識別人家人的女孩
可能我這點剛好跟她相反吧
請問大家有什麼好說服她的方式嗎?
或是我真的該直接嘗試參加看看?
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