[求助] 是不是該切了???
好吧 我必須說這是一個很老梗的問題
但因為有幾年感情 還是有一點捨不得
介意點1:
我和男朋友沒有公開 所以一直活在地下 讓我覺得有點不舒服
曾經和他討論想公開 但他並不想任何人說三道四
為了尊重他 所以我配合了
介意點2:
我的個性比較活潑樂觀
男友就比較悶 想法比較"特別"
昨天地震,我說:瞬間覺得活著真好
他回我:只有死亡才是真正的解脫,希望我(他)的忌日趕快到
我瞬間傻眼,這要叫我回什麼?
當下非常心灰意冷,我只好回:可以不要說這樣的話嗎?
我們天南地北的個性,我以為是互補,但現在我要打上一個大大的問號?
介意點3:
我很喜歡往外跑,如果放假兩天,有一天我就想去溜達溜達
他呢則是十足宅男,要他出門超~困~難
交往幾年,只過夜的出去玩1次
大概3~4個月才看一次電影或吃飯
如果他不陪我 我就自己想辦法找樂子
我有和他抗議過,他直接說:要不就分手吧Orz
(在還沒追到我之前,可是非常樂意陪我出去,菸...)
有一次我和朋友們約吃飯,大家都攜伴,我就拜託他一起去
結果他說,那個東西超噁心,他根本連吃都不會吃
結果我到現場,朋友的男友也說,其實他(朋友的男友)也不吃這個東西,
但女友(我的朋友)想吃他會陪她吃!
反觀我的男友...連吃都沒吃就說噁心
介意點4:
9月是我的生日,我和男友說,你不用送我生日禮物,陪我出去玩就好
結果到生日當天,他有工作要忙,經我提醒後,才對我敷衍地說生日快樂
我想他可能在忙,也不和她計較
隔天我就討拍說:我的生日都沒見到你一面(我們住很近 騎車不到15分鐘)
他就說:你真是個重視生日的人!我決定以後我要當個沒生日的人!
從交往前,我就對他說,生日對我來說很重要,
情人節七夕聖誕節什麼拉哩拉鉔的都可以忽略,
就是生日的時候我希望至少可以和喜歡的人一起度過
我對他說,我可以不要生日禮物,不代表我就要被你漠視
他完全沒回話
我和他之間沒有任何的小三,因為他完全懶得交際,也不出門= =
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就是因為生日加上剛剛那個忌日的話題
感覺一桶冷水澆在這段感情上
謝謝大家看完這段
打完這段,我覺得我已經回不去了! 是該找個時間和他掰掰了...(淚)
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