[求助] 女友去男友家過夜是否恰當?
跟男友交往差不多快一年,
交往初期到現在,
每個禮拜都會固定去他家過夜一天,
有一次因為事情在固定的那天沒去過夜,
他的家人還會問我去了哪裡的樣子。
因為之前我都在外自己租房,
所以沒想這麼多,
直到最近妹妹來一起住,
知道了這件事,
告訴我女方這樣很不好,
應該不要再去過夜比較好。
我跟男友雖在一起不久,
但是兩人有談及婚嫁,
也許是這樣,
所以男方家人似乎也接受我在他們家進進出出的樣子?(其實我也不確定)
可是他們背地里
是不是有可能也會覺得這女生很隨便呢?
跟他說了這件事,
他是覺得我想太多了。。
至於去他家過夜的原因,
是因為我很宅,他也很宅,
週末只想在房間里看YouTube的影片,
或者下載的電影打發時間,
不喜歡去外面花錢,
然後我又一個人住,
如果回家,第二天要見面又要出來,
很麻煩,就過夜了。。
簡單來說就是一個懶字.
但是如果在別人眼裡觀感會不好,
我還是會勤勞一點。。
請問大家,
過夜是否真的很不恰當呢?
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