[討論] "身為一個男人就要養得起老婆"這句話錯了
今天跟朋友突然討論到這個話題
"身為一個男人就要養得起老婆"是父系思想的錯誤觀念
朋友A說:這是一個古老的價值觀,只是不想讓女生出外工作認識其它男性。
朋友B說:家應該是一起努力的,不單純是父方責任。
朋友C說:經濟不獨立,才沒有安全感的女人我見多了。
幾乎一面倒的認為那個鬼觀念是錯的!
其實我滿訝異的(好吧,我很古老),反過來說"女孩子們就是要嫁給一個養不起自己的男人"?
早說嘛,男孩子每天拼死拼活的為了提供經濟穩定的安全感,原來都是垃圾?
其實,我一點也不相信這些鬼話,男孩子對自己有這種期許,不過是提供女孩子"不工作也不會餓死"的選擇,至於要不要工作還是女孩子的自由。
再談到現在沒有錢一起打拼的問題?這一點也不矛盾,我認為是因為相信"對方"有辦法帶來未來(如果不相信早拆伙換人了,或是自己做),所以一起努力,不管如何,一個是現在養的起,一個是未來養的起,不管如何都是"相信他養的起"才會嫁給他吧?
很難理解這個邏輯,什麼時候"養的起女孩子"已經變成"叫女方不要工作"
請問各位30cm,D cup是我的思想太古老,還是現在的女孩子真的好追到"不用男方經濟基礎"也可以成家?
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