[求助] 如何讓父母就此打住?
上個月剛滿28...四周的表兄弟姊妹不是都有交往對象, 就是抱小孩結婚.
老爸媽看著四周親戚整天在聊養孫樂趣後, 開始瘋狂的想要介紹女生跟我認識.
整天在叫些:
1. 你是長孫, 不能無後.
2. 你是我們家(父母系兩邊)唯一呆呆畢業的,不能讓優良的基因失傳.
3. 你這麼努力賺錢,薪水也不錯高, 沒有後代繼承被國家充公很可惜.
4. 你這麼老了還沒交過女友, 沒結婚, 很奇怪.
5. 你被我們生育下來, 你以後也要生兒育女才是完成人類的任務.(這啥鬼....)
開始物色對象時,都挑他們看得順眼的.
長相,腦袋,腦袋都不重要,最好乖乖聽話,無特殊才能,會做家事 有穩定工作.
聽到真的很無言.....
我老姐甚至吐槽說扣掉生兒育女,這標準不知道是要找媳婦還是找傭人.
交往,婚姻這種事情不是應該是抱著找戰友的心態去找嗎?
對象應該是可以互補,甚至是好敵手才有話聊, 這樣一起生活才有趣,
也能夠避免單人決策的盲點.
此外另外一伴應該要堅強,有主見,這樣子如果不幸我先走一步,
她能夠自己做出判斷,自己好好的活下去.
講這些父母都不聽呀.我現在只能先換個經常加班出差的外地工作躲躲..
有啥建議可以讓他們住手嗎?
感謝
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