[求助] 女友身邊的Gay朋友
小弟我女朋友身邊有很多朋友
不外乎姊妹或者異性朋友但她常常把他們稱作為Gay
我對姊妹朋友不是很在乎
但是我非常介意被她稱為"Gay"的朋友們
她常常跟某些Gay吃飯或者每天通電話
讓我心裡不是很舒服
隨然我支持每個人都可以保有自己的交友空間
但我看到她們每天Line也天天通電話
她還跟我說他就是Gay不用擔心
讓我覺得很沒安全感
沒安全感的原因有以下三點
第一:那位友人我也認識然後他從頭到尾都沒有說自己是Gay
一切都是我女朋友單方面認為
第二:我認為男生主動找女生說Line跟天天打電話都是有目的
我就覺得我會步入某些PTT文章的後塵轉職成綠光戰警
第三:她是個對感情非常懵懂的女孩我是她的初戀
因為我們在一起的方法非常自然我說說話她就走到我希望的結果了
以至於她根本不知道男生追女生的方式
綜合以上三點
我非常擔心我會隨時轉職
但在這之中我都有很明確的跟女朋友闡述我的不安
跟我的論點
我跟她說:寶寶啊,那個我不開心因為你所說的Gay,
他們根本沒有承認自己是Gay啊!
他們是男生他們也有七情六慾,
我擔心他們喜歡妳,
然後男生如果喜歡女生才會一直找你聊天,
讓你習慣有他,待妳息慣之後他就可以繼續下一步他想做的,
就算不是我所說的這樣,但他天天找你的舉動也是會讓人覺得居心叵測。
然後她還是無限鬼打牆說她就是Gay叫我不要擔心
跪求版上的個位大大
到底要用甚麼方法才能避免我轉職啊?
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推 ascii:( ′﹀‵)/︴ 04/25 11:02
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