[求助] 該繼續相信嗎?
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男友在一起一年半了,
交往後一個月就被我發現與前女友藕斷絲連...
他說他不想看前女友傷心鬧自殺所以偽裝著,
也保證會近期內解決,
我相信了,之後也沒再多問。
半年過去,
在一次我返鄉回到小窩的時候,
我看到他約其他女生到小窩聊天?
他說沒有進到屋子裡,
只是單純在門外聊天...
我再次相信了...
一直到我上班被調回南部,
我們遠距了,
經過幾個月沒見面,
當然就是看看手機有沒有什麼詭異的地方,
居然發現他與前前女友聊了將近半小時,
當下生氣的質問了,
他居然裝傻,
事實擺在眼前為什麼可以如此大言不慚說自己沒有撥打電話?
接下來的日子裡開始陸續發現,
1.前前女友與男人生了小孩男人跑了,還要求我男友跟我分手跟她複合,
2.男友時不時傳訊息給前前女友說是要關心,
3.男友跟我在一起半年居然還與前女友開房間發生關係,理由居然是因為她年紀小想起他
們分手還是會傷心..
4.前前女友打電話嗆聲說我管不住男友,男友也沒有為此保護我,居然還說要跟她做好朋
友,我與前前女友沒有任何關係,不需在意前前女友對我的想法
5.前前女友要我男友去看她小孩,打電話給我男友聊天,男友都隱瞞,我發現之後卻說我
不信任他
我到底該怎麼做?
什麼樣才是信任一個人?
我已經挑明了我不想要他隱瞞,
他居然說不管有沒有隱瞞我都會生氣,
於是選擇不告訴我,
但需要我相信他,
他的心都在我身上,不會有二心
他說他認為的信任,是不管他做什麼都相信他不會亂來
但是他的種種作為令人不敢恭維。
很累想放棄了卻看他流下眼淚叫我不要離開,
我的心已經受傷了該怎麼繼續下去,
謝謝大家有耐心看完...
我要繼續糾結了...
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