[求助] 男友在暗示我主動提分手?
跟男友交往兩年多,約莫在交往半年多後開始同居(我家人提供的房子,他有給房租)。
一開始同居當然很恩愛,但久了則是越來越瞭解彼此,反而爭吵不斷
我的年紀比男友大,當初是以結婚為前提交往
但是,前陣子男友說跟我是不可能結婚了...
原因很多,包含了我的個性,生活習慣跟往後彼此要的生活不同
我很愛我男友,面對他提出不可能結婚一事,讓我遲遲不敢面對
畢竟我已經三十好幾歲了...但是,很多跟男友不合的部分我卻無法改善或雙方調整
達成共識...
有次我問他,我對他來說是不是可有可無?但他卻沈默...
我知道他的心大概已經不在這段感情上。現在有的或許就是他對這感情的責任…
現在跟男友處於僵局,兩人雖然同住,但模式卻非常老夫老妻,沒有熱情可言
常常週末兩個人就這樣待在家,各做各的事結束兩天的假期
但自從男友提出不可能結婚後,也沒對我說要分手,也不見他有要搬走的打算。
難道是在暗示我自己提出分手?又或是他其實還想給我機會,或許我跟他還是有共組家庭
的可能呢?謝謝各位。
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老夫老妻,所以親密行為少得可以。一起出門也都是我在勾他的手...不是互相牽手
還是對他來說,提分手太沈重,像是在當壞人? 所以才會想說他是不是在暗示我分手
※ 編輯: paperchange (118.167.12.149), 09/28/2014 23:59:00
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