[求助] 這事情對兩人的未來有害嗎?
我和女友交往了三年多
她是個思考能力很強的女孩子
在任何事情上面總是有辦法做到另他人找不到錯誤的點
也因此幾乎沒有從她口中聽到真誠的跟我說一句
[對不起]
(就算不好意思類似裝可愛講也沒有)
不管是不是她做錯事情還是兩人都做錯了事情
(做錯事的定義例如:
約好了以後在見面前一小時說突然有人約吃飯不能見面了)
從來都沒有聽過她心甘情願的講出這三個字
有時我會覺得在某些狀況下她至少也該跟我說一下
且我提出這個問題
總是會惹惱過她
然後她會用類似: 好,我跟你道歉,這樣總可以了吧?
之類的話回覆我
但我也知道因為那是在吵架過程口氣難免比較衝
但結果就是這樣結束
那三個字一樣從沒真誠的說出口
爾後就算我覺得她"可能"需要跟我道歉的狀況下我也就不再說
有人有遇過相同狀況嗎?
如果有的話通常是怎樣溝通且怎樣解決?
是我的問題還是她的問題?
還是只是因為個性不同?
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其實有談到分手後她承認她很對不起我
但是在當下就是不會想要道歉0.0
※ 編輯: xxxxx789 (114.25.202.5), 05/31/2014 00:44:01