[討論] 怎麼樣才算是陪?
想討論一下男生跟女生認為陪的定義的差別,
因為身邊有朋友跟她男朋友吵架,就是因為對陪的認知不同,
有些男生認為的陪似乎只要是在女生的周圍附近就算是陪,
(EX.一整天只有下班下課後有相處時間,但卻沒有太大的互動聊天,各自做自己的事情
也算陪。)
但女生想要的陪是聊天、講心事、分享生活中的大小事等有互動的,
這種時候到底要怎麼溝通呢?
男生會認為累了一天了,女生都不體諒不體貼,
可是女生也覺得很委屈,只是想跟男朋友說說話而已,
想請教鄉民的看法。
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二樓你的英文...
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我的意思是有這種情況發生,要怎麼溝通男生才不會覺得女生盧,而女生也不會覺得沒被
陪到而委屈不開心。
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那如果當天就只剩下某個時間講話,女生要求聊天這樣也算盧嗎?
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好閃~好幸福~
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所以其實是女生可以不用覺得委屈這樣嗎?
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真的喔,其實就只是要相體諒吧!
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恭喜妳男友有體貼好女友~我不夠體貼orz
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還來不及說就先吵架了ˊ_>ˋ
※ 編輯: joe976003 (220.136.78.114), 05/19/2014 01:25:40
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