[心情] 分手後,可不可以不要做朋友?已刪文
我知道這是月經文了,請容許我發洩一下QAQ
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與男友交往半年,他有位交往約7、8年的前女友。
當初兩人和平分手,也由於朋友圈的關係,分手後仍然是久久聯絡、聚會喝酒的朋友。
前女友的訊息都是交往後我才慢慢知道的。
我曾經不只一次與男友反應過我很在意他的異性朋友,
男友只是回應我說他的朋友已經很少了,意思是希望我不要剝奪他交友的自由。
某次意外下知道了他在沒有告知我的狀況下,約前女友吃飯、請前女友陪他逛街買衣服,
當下只有狠狠被甩巴掌的感覺。
我努力回想當天男友是如何跟我交代他當天的行程的,
買些東西?喔他沒有騙我,他只是隱瞞了誰陪他買東西而已。
我一邊掉著眼淚一邊替他找藉口說,他是怕惹我不高興……
我不想與他爭吵所以這件事我一直沒有點破,他也不知道我知道了。
就算我開誠布公把我這心頭上的疙瘩坦在他眼前,
他一定也只會說兩人就只是朋友而已,那只是朋友的交際。
男友與前女友只是朋友嗎?
確實,在我看來兩人的對話內容的確像朋友一樣,前女友有追求者,也知道男友已有新戀情。
但男友的隱瞞讓我的心裡非常難過、委屈、不痛快。
我的交友圈太單純,連半個能令男友吃醋的異性朋友都沒有,所以實在不能明白有異性朋友的感覺,而且那個異性朋友還是男友深愛過的前女友QAQ
女孩子嫉妒哭鬧的嘴臉真的好醜陋,我不想讓男友看到我這個樣子,我努力想保持著風度,不代表我真的一點都不在乎
可以不要這樣欺負第一次交男朋友的女孩嗎?
可不可以將心比心一下?
分手後不做朋友很難嗎?
如果未來我與現任男友感情走到了盡頭,這句話會是我對自己的期許,
也是對下一任的尊重。
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