[求助] 我是膽小鬼
男友個性比較暴躁
生氣的時候會有狠敲桌子的動作
或是說話音量變大、口氣不耐煩等
但不曾對我動粗或吼叫
他知道我很容易受驚嚇,所以盡量改變自己的脾氣
兩年來已經有明顯的改善
只是一直有個問題困擾我
今天男友玩遊戲時碰上令人抓狂的事
那款遊戲我們一起玩的,所以我完全明白他有多憤怒
這次他沒有拍桌子或暴跳如雷
只是嘟著嘴巴摸摸我的頭說他很不開心
但我卻非常恐懼
甚至平常的親暱舉動(摸我的後頸&頭髮,像摸貓那樣)
我都不自覺發抖,覺得他下一秒就會突然抓狂折斷我的頸子
儘管他根本什麼都沒有做............
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類似這樣的情況在認識男友前就存在
其實不止發生在我們相處之間
我發現自己沒辦法在緊張的氣氛裡面多待一秒
會害怕、會哭
連電視節目出現吵架的片段也不行,必須立刻轉檯
否則下一秒就崩潰...........
這樣的情形該如何改善才好?我到底怎麼了?
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