我有一個小我很多歲的妹妹,
未成年正在讀高中而已,
對於感情上的價值觀很不成熟和穩定,
像是有了檯面上的男朋友又有私底下的親愛的或網路遊戲的老公,
新的對象也通常都是無縫接軌。
好不容易上一任男朋友蠻穩定的,
交往大概一年多,
雖然我沒見過對方,不過聽我妹說很疼她,
也不會像之前某些還會偷跑來我們家或一直打電話來煩,
所以心裡也默默覺得我妹總算有挑到一個還不錯的好男生。
沒想到我妹後來老毛病又犯了...
去年底認識一個她的高中學長(已經畢業在工作),
幾乎每天接我妹下課或買飲料給她喝,
才沒幾個禮拜(大約跨年前後)我妹就跟原本的分手然後和這任在一起了。
老實說我真的很不喜歡她這任男朋友,
除了介入人家以外(當然我妹的問題更大),
還一天到晚要我妹去陪他,到九點多才回家;
之前有試著跟她提醒過這任在一起的那麼快,
前男友或身邊朋友一定都會竊竊私語,
她也都說她知道,想先至少瞞三個月等感情穩定,
我以為她懂我意思,結果又是不到一個禮拜馬上掛穩定交往拼命曬恩愛="=
搞得她前男友很不爽,
好像私底下有吵架然後刪臉書好友了,
我妹也一付沒差她又沒對不起誰的樣子...
原本也懶得管她,
結果前陣子她前男友開始敲我臉書,
想問我妹跟那男生到底是怎麼認識和在一起的,
說他很難過自己付出這麼多我妹卻這樣馬上跟別的男生交往;
我自己是都跟他說我不清楚,
請他好好過生活,
指號他好像就是想要問出什麼,甚至問我哪天有空要出去吃飯聊聊...
但我一點都不想阿,
這其實不關我的事情,
我也不認識他,
臉書說說話安慰一下還不夠嗎?
我也不知道要不要老實說我妹就是劈腿了...
(一月中看到她男朋友說交往一個月快樂...但我妹和前男友明明十二月底才分),
這樣他知道後就會滿意了嗎?
到底該怎麼做...我覺得她前男友很可憐,
但想也知道我妹不可能會好好解決;
請問到底要不要跟我妹說這件事情?還是跟她前男友婉轉的說出實情?
還是直接封鎖不要淌這渾水比較好?
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我必須承認我對她和她高中朋友們的價值觀都感到很驚訝,
她們都很清楚知道劈腿和介入人家有多不應該,
但她們在做的時候卻又有各種理由去合理化這些行為...
我的確不知道該怎麼樣評論自己的妹妹...
畢竟再怎麼樣她都是我最愛的家人,很矛盾,我沒辦法說她是PU,
但我很希望她長大後能夠明白現在自己有多不懂事和傷害多少人。
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