遇到困境
經過之前努力的追求, 終於和我現在這女友在一起了(第二任) 射手男與天秤女認識一年
相處的一切都是美好, 我們也在計劃未來. 未來租屋要住哪? 一起存錢...等
但 似乎熱戀期過後 我發現她有些冷淡. 想見面也很難約. 因為工作的地方 人手不足.
加上又年底 事情較多. 常下班後都懶得見面 只想一個人回家休息.
我以為和她出國玩回來後會放鬆一些. 結果聽她說 也沒有.
我有點擔心這樣下去 感情會慢慢淡掉. 如果我一直黏她 又好像她覺得我為何一直煩她..
我36了. 她34. 她之前有去澳洲遊學打工兩年. 與那邊的朋友還有聯絡.
前一陣子她的朋友邀請她去幫忙. 我看她有一點想去. 雖說 對方是40Y左右的老外.
但我還是很擔心 她去了就不回來了(也許我想太多) 但這險 我自認擔不起.
曾經與她提過 把工作辭了 與她一起去. 她也不要.
她是個很顧家的女孩. 目前父母也是她在幫忙照顧. 雖然有兩個嫁出去的姐姐.
但我感覺她更像姐姐, 因為都是她在操持她家.
我同事建議我 全力支持她 如果她想去澳洲的話.
我想聽聽各位高手 有何建議? 我怎麼做會比較好...
一直想見面, 提議見面 又被拒絕, 想見 見不到還挺難受的.
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