[求助]喜歡一個女生但沒辦法接受他的家庭
想請教各位大大,小弟我在一個因緣際會下認識了同一個公司中的其他女生。
那個女孩長的非常漂亮,個性也好,成熟又獨立,也很會替別人著想。
我真的很喜歡他,自然發展下沒多久,上個禮拜在一起了。
但是那個女生之前曾經跟我說過他家庭不美滿有一些問題,交往後詳細的問了一下
才發現他爸爸因為賭博,跟他媽媽分居了。雖然他爸爸對他們姐妹都很好,沒有向
他們拿過半毛錢,但聽說他爸把遺產,一棟一千萬的房子給輸光了,現在到底有沒有負債
則是打死都不跟他女兒說。
我年紀也老大不小了,如果結婚之後莫名奇妙要幫岳父背一堆債的話實在是辦不到。
但如果提分手,想到女生他沒辦法選擇出身的家庭,很無辜,又捨不得。
真的是感覺到很兩難。各位大大如果是你們的話,會如何抉擇呢?
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