[求助] 想結婚,怎麼確認男友的想法?
跟男友在一起快1年了
其實本來不打算這麼早結婚
但是我媽媽的病情變得不太樂觀
我一直希望她可以參與我人生的每個階段,也希望她可以看到我結婚生子過著幸福的生活…
問題在於結婚不是自己想結就可以,這是兩個人的事,更是兩家人的事!
其實我男友見過我家人幾次,我媽也很喜歡他!但是他好像完全沒有想讓我認識他們家的想法…
有次電話聽到他爸問說,啊你最近好像和一個女生常講電話,類似這種話,結果他回說那是研究所同學什麼的!
也問過有沒有要讓他們家人知道我的存在,他的意思都是否定的…
雖然我裝的很輕鬆,其實真的難過死了…
我想說的是,如果不打算告訴家人我的存在,是不是就是因為沒有要和我結婚的想法才這樣?
我其實也不想逼他帶我去認識他們家人,其實每次提到這個話題,我都覺得還蠻受傷又很沒面子,畢竟介紹家人這種事,應該是他提比較恰當啊…
所以我想問說,有沒有比較好的做法,可以知道他的未來有沒有我的位置?我比較小女生,一直希望這種問題是男方提出來討論,但是我現在有急,該怎麼做會比較好呢?> <
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