[求助]不結婚或結婚但不生小孩,女生會有意願嗎?
我因為小時候爸媽離婚,心裡有陰影,行為也有偏差。
花了很多青春歲月才走出來。
周遭的親朋好友、同學也有很多父母離異的。
我覺得兩個人在一起,沒有必要用一張證書綁在一起
兩個若是兩情相悅、相愛那就會一直走下去
現實中很多結了婚、生小孩之後,不合、吵架離婚
對小孩真的是莫大的傷害、很可憐
我還記得母親臨走前說:
"媽媽要和爸爸分開了以後不會住這裡了,你要自己照顧自己,媽媽偶爾會來找你,
你會不會討厭媽媽、會不會難過?..."
我微笑"不會",然後晚上窩在棉被裡啜泣。
然而我的情況算是幸運了,有些人從小就連父母在哪都找不到了...
另外我覺得我無法教育好我的孩子,心中有很多陰影。
因為童年過得不好,我可能會對孩子特別好以致寵壞他,
也怕沒辦法給他好的環境
也可能因為父親的情緒化管教 而到頭來受害者變加害者...
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如果和女生交往,和她說以後不結婚
或是要結婚也可以,但不生小孩的話
女生是不是多半會沒有意願?
或是我自己一個人過會比較好?
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嗯!了解~
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嗯!thank you 謝謝你的建議~~
※ 編輯: LupinArsene 來自: 219.69.83.246 (10/11 02:27)
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了解~所以要想辦法找志同道合的~~
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