[求助] 男友的疏離,讓我有點想聯絡ex...
男友從本來的即時回訊,變成現在隔天回訊,讓我覺得他可能沒什麼心了…
ex隔了一年沒聯絡…但今年生日突然寫信祝我生日快樂,說他想聽聽我一年異地生活感想
因為現任對我很好,所以雖然也想跟ex聊天,但總覺不妥,所以沒有回信
但最近男友的延遲回訊,讓我開始想跟ex聯絡
其實這個ex說是ex吧,他也不承認,只是我當時真的非常喜歡他,
跟他聊天學到很多東西,覺得是絕佳的伴侶
在本文中雖稱他ex (是小寫,因為他不承認)
但人家不承認,我又能怎樣,鼻子摸摸認輸去也
當時分開時,他也說有認識新的女生了…
我不懂他為何又聯絡我
問了其他的男性友人,他們都賊笑說 「那有什麼,就是癢了嘛~一定跟新女生有問題」
其實我這次為什麼會對聯絡這位ex舉棋不定
因為經過理性思考,人家死都不承認,我也不要相逼才好,
所以理性上知道,就算聯絡,也是朋友,不能再有肉體關係
但是感性上,我又怕自己把持不住
其實在我跟他結束前,我就跟自己說不要再跟他兩人獨處到夜裏了…結果還是被他留下來
為了自己的無用,哭了好多次
感覺他像貓玩獵物一樣,我想留,他就嫌我沒guts;而我想走,他又捨不得了
有想過一個解決方案
就是跟ex說,我人在外地,上網聊就好,無法碰面
但回顧我跟他的歷史對話,如果他開始關心我…我就會招架不住,供出一切…
如果是現任對我好的情況下,我跟他聯絡,應該就把持得住
但現在現任疏離,我想跟ex聯絡聊天,要是真的如友人所說他癢了,我真怕我把持不住
唉…大家給我些建議吧…
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