Re: [求助] 可能會因為不想跟婆婆同住而分手?
其實看完原文就覺得男方是迫於年齡壓力下才想趕快結婚生子
因為他在交往才三個月就坦白的提出他的"條件"
然後提出的過程中也看不到有溝通的空間
這也是一種讓人欣賞的坦誠啦沒有不對的地方
前面已經有很多回文都給了原PO很多很好的意見
有讚揚忍耐的啦、有勸分的啦~
我其實也是投勸分一票的XD
因為我覺得已經看得出來男方想成家並非優先因為"愛"
有板友說原PO還想玩定不下來
也有人說試都沒試過就先排斥很不妥
不過我看原文也說她自己跟男方家互動不差
應該代表原PO沒有排斥男友家人吧
就"試"的方面來說,三個月是能試出什麼線索來@@?
情侶都難免在剛交往的時候或多或少的刻意隱藏了
愛情長跑都有可能分開了不是嗎?
原PO也許早就深思熟慮過自己是否適合與公婆同住沒寫出來罷了
我不覺得"不想跟公婆同住"&"還想玩定不下來"有什麼關係@@
倒是男方左一句"你可以嗎"、右一句"我哥已經怎樣所以我一定要怎樣"
這態度很難不讓人心寒吧....
當然經濟因素絕對是一大考量!
只是我認為,如果經濟許可,先不跟公婆同住比較恰當
就像我看到某板友提的,如果原生家庭中有需要的話再視情況去討論去商量
我有一次聽到家裡長輩聊天:
(孩子成家後)一開始就住外面吼大家感情會比較融洽啦,
要是先住一起吵了架再搬出去吼,那個心結就難解了啦(台語XD)
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